Membership
How to Join the FemDom Society of Tampa Bay
Membership is open to individuals who support Female Authority, including Dominant Women (by birth, transition, or identification), switches, submissives, and allies. All prospective members must complete a formal vetting process before participating in private events or obtaining full membership. All members will undergo an initial and annual sexual offender database search; any positive match results in immediate removal.
Eligibility
Membership is open to individuals who support Female Authority, including Dominant Women (by birth, transition, or identification), switches, submissives, and allies. All prospective members must complete a formal vetting process before participating in private events or obtaining full membership.
Requirements
- Must be 18 years of age or older.
- Must support and uphold the Society’s Mission, Values, and Code of Conduct.
- Must complete the membership admission process described in the Bylaws.
- All members will undergo an annual sexual offender database search; any positive match results in immediate removal.
Vetting Process
All members will undergo an annual sexual offender database search; any positive match results in immediate removal.
- Open Membership with Vetting:
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- Written application
- Personal interview (in-person or virtual)
- Attendance at an introductory/public event
- Reference verification (if requested)
- Majority vote of the Vetting Committee is required for approval
- Referral Membership:
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- Sponsored by a Member in Good Standing
- Written statement of support from the sponsor
- May undergo a streamlined vetting process at the Committee’s discretion
Conduct and Standards
- Abide by the bylaws, rules, and event guidelines.
- Treat all members, guests, and venues respectfully.
- Support consent, inclusivity, safety, and discretion.
- Fulfill commitments in volunteer or leadership roles.
How Your Membership Supports the Society
Your monthly membership fees are essential to keeping the Tampa Bay FemDom Society thriving. Every dollar goes directly toward sustaining and enriching our community. Here’s what your contribution supports:
Event Rentals & High-Protocol Gatherings
We host events across the Tampa Bay Area, and securing safe, private, and exclusive venues is one of our largest expenses. Rental fees can range from $1,500 for smaller spaces to over $5,000 for larger venues. These costs allow us to maintain exclusivity for our members, while also supporting our vision for High Protocol FemDom Balls and large-scale gatherings. Membership funding helps us secure these spaces and offset ticketing costs—making it possible for all members to experience the most elegant and memorable events without prohibitive expense.
Website & Membership Platform
Your fees help maintain our website, hosting, and secure membership platform—giving you access to event updates, resources, and community connections. These fees currently are $69 per month, but will increase as our membership database grows.
Domme-Only Quarterly Dinners/Lunches
Once per quarter, we host a special dinner exclusively for our Domme members. These gatherings provide space for networking, mentorship, and community building among the women who lead. To enhance the experience, a select group of submissives are chosen to serve during these dinners, creating an atmosphere of high protocol service and deepening the traditions we value.
Monthly E-Newsletter
Members receive a professionally designed e-newsletter with event updates, educational resources, community news, and highlights from around the FemDom world.
Community Support & Charitable Giving
At the Board’s discretion, the Society will also make annual donations to local women’s shelters in the Tampa Bay area. By extending our support to organizations that provide safety, counseling, and empowerment to women in need, we reinforce our values of care, community, and leadership beyond our own membership.
By pooling our resources, we ensure that the Society not only survives but thrives—building a consent-based, empowering, and well-supported community for all who celebrate Female Authority.